I have been here a couple of weeks as a member, but am canceling. Here it's just constant pressure to have sex with a stranger NOW. I want chemistry, honesty, manners and friendship! Not endless emails but I am not giving out my number to someone I don't feel comfortable with instantly either! Not a deep relationship, but ongoing fun with like-minded people! This seems to be too much to ask!! Unicorns are rare and should be treasured. I don't feel treasured here.