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Let's try it   3/11/2012

Small cub Friend alway say no ? He saw he wanted only he he had a big dick but he was all total safe -sez bottom. Good sex ass and friend for me.I says being a Total Top yes!

Small cub, finding top guys to bend his little ass oversize-ones with a thanks.


1 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
ardentsarcasm 52 M
0  Articles
What is so hard about saying no thanks/what is so hard about accepting no thanks?   2/8/2012

For the ladies

If a guy consistently emails and emails and emails, or tries to hard in any way, with no established relationship its easy, Im just not interested, but thank you, its very flattering. If a guy shows up on a date and he's not your type, it is uncomfortable, but the fake cell phone call about your //family member having a fever is way worse than just saying "I just don't ...


4 Comments, 66 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
__A_J__ 47 F
9  Articles
What's the problem?   2/1/2012

I don't believe a lot of people understand what the two words 'no thanks' means. How many times does a person need to say it? ...


6 Comments, 96 Views, 23 Votes ,3.60 Score
Offended   1/29/2012

WHY do single men, get offended when a couple tells you NO, even when its posted ALL OVER OUR Fing PAGE?

Morons.


2 Comments, 87 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
treasurepurrsbk 65 F
1  Article
No Thank you to Smokers   1/20/2012

I say over and over No thankyou .why cant a person understand No thankyou Im alergic to tobbacco. No matter how you try cover it up how sexy you think you are or how youll quit after No thankyou .I like to breathe


5 Comments, 70 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
darekprince 22 M
5  Articles
I just cant   12/22/2011

Have you ever had that one guy that no matter how much you tell yourself no and that you can do better still gets to you some how? Well I have a guy like that. Ever since the first time we hooked up I just cant say no. He can go without talking to me for a month but when he calls me or texts me to hook up I fight a little or make myself unavailable, but the sex is so hot that I just give in ...


6 Comments, 133 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
caguy45 58 M
1  Article
Distance Rejection   12/19/2011

I reject people who live more than 100 miles away and they get very upset typically. I dont understand why so many long distance people contact me and why they get huffy when I say no. Just happened todat with somone over 2000 miles away, and NO photo to send!


6 Comments, 98 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
badgirlfriend97 42 F
3  Articles
Please dont be a dick   12/9/2011

My profile plainly states im looking for a specific thing so please dont be a dick when you contact me and show what you dont have and im not interested. I know that makes me sound like a bitch i just know what i want and if you dont have it dont pretend you do in my opion your actualy the douch for wasting our time.


4 Comments, 225 Views, 18 Votes ,3.94 Score
silkyfine25 39 F
2  Articles
I'm just not Interested   12/7/2011

I get a number of emails, some i find very interesting and others i don't...I have no problem with respectfully declineing anyone if i don't feel there is a honest attraction....But i have noticed that i get alot of rude and tasteless emails as a reply, so my question is should i just ignore those that i'm not interested in or do i continue being repectful and letting them know that i'm not ...


6 Comments, 134 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
fisherman197008 51 M
17  Articles
always be both polite and firm   12/2/2011

I have found that when I am not interested in someone that being honest is best, you should try to be polite but firm, that way it spares hard feelings and embarasment for them. the honesty should be appreciated.their feelings may be a little hurt, but they will respect you for being honest.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
I always say NO when...   11/11/2011

I get a message that is completely idiotic. I will not even give anybody a second if they message me and the first thing they say is "let me suck you". I like to talk to people and see who they are, what they are about!


4 Comments, 98 Views, 11 Votes ,6.35 Score
Drinking   10/26/2011

Do you find it hard to just tell people that you don't drink? Every time I do, people look at me funny...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Rejected because I wear condoms   10/25/2011

I recently met an attractive woman on this site. We talked for a little bit, then talked about meeting up. She asked me if I was fine with having sex without using condoms. At first I thought it was a joke, but she was very serious. I politely declined. Everyone be smart and be safe theres a lot of nasty things out there that can alter your life forever.


2 Comments, 67 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
jam7292000 75 M
5  Articles
Saying no is ok   10/20/2011

Too often there is no response to an email or IM. And I understand that people are very rude. Remember that it is the choice of the person to say yes or no and calling them names because there is a negative response to your email is not the answer.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
im4xtc4u2 75 M
12  Articles
Be courtious !!   10/14/2011

Too often no one answers an inquiry and that leaves a large void. It doesnt take a lot of time to simply say, thank you for asking but no thank you. It is just a nice courtesy.


3 Comments, 55 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
Where are the manners?   9/29/2011

I get it...not everyone is gonna be compatible and there is some amount of pure physical attraction that needs to go on for a connection to happen. BUT if there isn't, why can't people just say "thanks, nice meeting you, but i'm not interested".

Dunno, seems pretty simple and much nicer than ending the conversation, never to hear from them again - message is the same, but just a more ...


5 Comments, 93 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
bbw_austin22 34 F
3  Articles
no means no   8/30/2011

i'm 22..am i old fashioned to think that everyone should understand that NO MEANS NO?


2 Comments, 110 Views, 20 Votes ,4.53 Score
rm_zitalnbuf 40 M
3  Articles
The right thing   7/16/2011

So man games...if your not interested, a simply "no thanks" is the right and decent thing to do...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
pipelayer882 49 M
8  Articles
BBW   7/13/2011

I have recently met a few ladies who have seem to have outgrown their profile pics, and it made me feel a little................ awkward! I have no problem with women with a little weight on them, but when they show up waaayyy bigger than you expect, then it's a problem for me. Anyone agree?


2 Comments, 72 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Best way to meet a girl on here   6/19/2011

I have met women in the past for dates and right away I know I am not interested. I would hate to have a girl come to my house for the first time and not want to have sex with her from this site. I would feel guilty and give it to her anyway. What is the best way to figure out if this girl is worthy? Do you meet them somewhere real quick in public and make sure the sexual connection is there??


9 Comments, 169 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
How many have sad "NO THANKS"   6/17/2011

Does it knock you confidence when a woman or man says "NO" to sex?


3 Comments, 79 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
jhernan327 40 M
2  Articles
How to Say No in the Bedroom   6/2/2011

How To Say No To...



...the nice guy-nice, but not your type-who asks you on a date:

1 "I'm sorry, I can't." If you're feeling weak, you can add, "I'm seeing someone." If you have no spine whatsoever, you can start with "I'm very flattered, but..."

...your partner, who's suggesting a far-out sexual act:

2 Look appalled and shriek, "What is wrong with ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Saying No Thanks   5/31/2011

Why do a lot of men get upset and become very rude when you decline their offer. Just because a woman is on here does not mean she is desperate, and one who jumps in bed with every offer on here.


21 Comments, 233 Views, 29 Votes ,5.55 Score
sex4_u_on_a_stix 43 M
3  Articles
Almost scammed!   5/18/2011

I must start with how AdultFriendFinder is a Terrific site and how quick and helpful they were on acting with my problem.

It started with a member leaving a wink I checked out his page and Who-ow he was cute. I left a wink and hot listed him now we have all done that Yes!

This is were it begins the emails back and forth nothing vulgar or offensive, just innocent emails.

After a few ...


1 Comments, 245 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
If she says no, respect it!   5/8/2011

dont ever get mad because she said no, you dont know what her day was, what her life has been lately. just be respectful and say "ok" be a gentlemen, not a d-bag.


4 Comments, 60 Views, 13 Votes ,6.00 Score
rm_3some2013 29 C
2  Articles
no   5/6/2011

Do anyone understand no n e more?


5 Comments, 64 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
wantitrllllybad 37 M
3  Articles
Why does she get mad   4/12/2011

Eveytime i tell he ri don't want to have sex she gets upset


5 Comments, 84 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
8inshape47 55 M
13  Articles
Condom use   4/8/2011

i have been rejected a couple of times because i want to wear condoms all the time...why do women turn me away because i am concerned about my health, not to mention i might have no idea if they are 100% clean or not?


6 Comments, 197 Views, 13 Votes ,4.32 Score
Sometimes you just have to say "NO"   4/3/2011

If there is just no attraction, yeah sometimes you just have to take one for your own team, and say thank you, but I don't want another. But if she is cross-eyed, dresses like she was straight out of the forties, has a hunch back and is overweight, then pay for the dinner, walk her to her car and just apologize you're just not turned on by her. Don't cave because she offers you oral sex, and when ...


2 Comments, 46 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
FlaCpl4Female 50 C
9  Articles
Best way   3/29/2011

What is your preferred way to tell someone you are not interested? Does it get any easier over time? Some people make it simple by being assholes but it's tough when nice people have to be told no.


5 Comments, 101 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score