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JR20163 40 M
5  Articles
Is it that hard to say no thanks?   7/10/2016

Is it that hard to say no thanks? simple polite response just saying your not interested?


3 Comments, 17 Views, 0 Votes
varun_79595 44 M
2  Articles
How to eat PUSSY   6/22/2016

Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat pussy because there are too few of you out there. Furthermore, some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly. This is one rare customer and she ...


3 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
toungeman4woman 68 M
7  Articles
changes on AdultFriendFinder   6/19/2016

So about three days ago AdultFriendFinder was at it again change the cam vire you could not even see you owen cam WTH is going on here new management or what


1 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
toungeman4woman 68 M
7  Articles
AdultFriendFinder CHANGES TP STANDARD MEMBERS   6/13/2016

As modt Standard members now know AdultFriendFinder is charging point soe just about everthing. Im CHAT VIDEO VIEW ETC


4 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
Pat1qaz 47 M
1  Article
Don't Ignore, just say what you think!   6/7/2016

Too many folks on here will not just say, "thanks, but not my type"....what ever happened to being honest instead of just all of a sudden ignoring some one...rude!


2 Comments, 25 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
An older man and the younger woman .....   5/20/2016

Half-your-age-plus-seven. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date.

So a 59-year old guy can date a 36/37-year old girl. No problem there. But if she’s 30 years old…I am now called a pervert or creepy guy.

Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But still so many people in ...



9 Comments, 242 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
SeanTheDon3 27 M
10  Articles
Home   5/6/2016

I'm bored and want points


1 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
psbiguy 64 M
3  Articles
Whats the best way to say not interested.   4/27/2016

I have gotten a lot of response to my profile that are younger then what I am looking for. My profile heading is even Coffee Buddy 60+ w/benefits". I don't want to be rude, just I am not looking for younger. A few times I had the same couples ask repeatedly and finally had to block them.


1 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Neil1980s 32 M
1  Article
Why is it diificult for some to at least say "No Thanks"?   4/7/2016

With so many people from all over the world on this site, it's fair to say you'll find someone you're interested in meeting with pretty quickly, though it's also fairly likely that that person may not be interested in meeting you, for whatever reason.

That's fine, but as far as I'm concerned, basic courtesy dictates that if you receive a message, then you at last reply to it, if only to ...


5 Comments, 63 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
when you hear no thanks?   4/4/2016

When you hear no thanks


4 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Wantodouto123 58 M
1  Article
Do you have morals!   3/26/2016

OK so this actually happened to me in about 10 years ago. I was out partying with my best friend and his wife and we went to a local bar where we live just to have a good time and play pool..... As The night went on we all were getting pretty buzzed up....Now let me say Jennifer his wife is extremely gorgeous and I admit I've fanatized about her, anyway I made my way to the bathroom when ...


3 Comments, 44 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
TabithaBeau 48 F
1  Article
being Gentle   3/23/2016

my own policy when it comes to turning someone down on an adult site is simply to say, no thank you, thank you for understanding. There is no advantage at a point of rejection to be offering specific excuses, as it only creates a defensive situation.


5 Comments, 37 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
Lizzy6969 54 F
2  Articles
Doesn't matter how you say it..........   2/26/2016

It doesn't matter how you say it, the person on the other end 95% of the time gets offended. Its a lose lose situation. I have said it so many different ways, changed my profile so hopefully they wouldn't even email me (that does't work, men look at pictures), I have even just deleted the emails being rude and not saying a word but that don't help either cause they continue to email ...


9 Comments, 79 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
charlesmorgan101 53 M
2  Articles
You have to say what you mean....   2/1/2016

There are some people who think that "no" is the hardest word to say in the world. I am not one of them. Some people believe if you say "no" you will lose friends, or be unpopular. Better to be friendless and unpopular, than to say yes to something that will put you in a poor position.

So, "no thanks" is often necessary. And it's actually better than radio silence. There are many who ...


3 Comments, 27 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
jacobmille565565 34 M
3  Articles
They get there and they aren't what you expected   1/21/2016

Has anyone ran into the situation where you invited someone from AdultFriendFinder over with adult fun in mind only to find they are not as advertised? How did you handle this situation. I'm sure it is really awkward for everyone involved. Or maybe there was something that just turned you off when they finally got there. How did you handle saying "no thanks"?


6 Comments, 157 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
TheOnlyHotspot 42 C
5  Articles
I might be too blunt   1/13/2016

If I'm not interested it's going to be a straight up answer. I am nice but blunt is anyone else like that or am I the only bitch. If you n I have nothing in common I'm sorry but it's not happening

NO THANKS


2 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
"No Gracias"   1/4/2016

There was one time where the person said please do me so hard and I said no.


2 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_WERYRYIO 42 M
1  Article
YES or NO   12/13/2015

we do say YES when its come about sex life and normally word NO in sex life was just a word thats mean nothing. As long we live and ability to want means YES to our sex life


2 Comments, 20 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
sumith00007 33 M
1  Article
Ass lick   11/22/2015

Why girl ass makes man horny..


3 Comments, 29 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
KIngofAces5 21 M
1  Article
Sent mixed signal and chasing a lost of interest   11/11/2015

This is usually the reason why people pursue after someone. Because they thought they may be interested in them or may possibly give them a chance however when the individual decides to say no then the aggressor typically a man ( Man dominated cultures and in this chase America) thinks the chase (woman/man) is just playing hard to get. It is the flirts, misinterpreted body language that has ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
rejection on reason basis and strength of rejection   10/30/2015

some people just do not like to accept "i don't like you" as an answer. what could be done in this case? one of the good choices could be reasoning and explaining the reason unless he/she is some kind of psycho, in which case rejection should be strong and exempt from reasoning


2 Comments, 22 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_NOPoet30 67 M
47  Articles
NO!   10/29/2015

Hey Look Ppl - No is NO and they usually [90%] mean just that = NO. Once should be enough! To keep going is not only pointless, but it is also very annoying and can lead only to trouble. Listen and comply.


2 Comments, 19 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
clubg24 82 C
1  Article
JUST SAY "NO".   10/8/2015

Some people are just so sweet hearted that even on a sex site they have difficulty saying NO to someone who is trying to get them into bed. No one enjoys being rejected but...for something as serious as giving my body to someone for their pleasure and me indulging in theirs I feel a need to be extremely picky. Maybe if you don't get many invites and you are desperate to get laid your expectations ...


16 Comments, 155 Views, 31 Votes ,6.50 Score
Traveled the Road Less Traveled   10/4/2015

Well Ladies and Gentlemen, I tried to travel down the road less traveled and let me tell you... I learned some major lessons.

As Oprah would say, what I know for sure is... what I like and do not like and what I will and will not tolerate.

Let me explain I traveled down the road of younger guys and what my experience was... the sex was great, but... and we all know that the but ...


3 Comments, 74 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
How many times to say no?   9/25/2015

We have several members who continuously message their interest in us. We do try to answer when someone takes the time of message us but just how many times must one do that? Is there a way to block a member when they become a nuisance?


4 Comments, 32 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
SoCarolinaMan 62 M
2  Articles
How do you feel when you make a "date" for swinging and the other party does not show up?   9/12/2015

Whenever a party says they will meet for a sexual encounter and they do not show up, what do you do?


6 Comments, 39 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
TwoPlusOne4Funnn 35 C
1  Article
whoa can we meet you before your genitals   9/6/2015

Why ...just why lol do people think it is attractive to send genital pics in their 1st ever message to you like hi this is my stuff do you like....um I don't even know anything about you yet...immediate turn off


5 Comments, 45 Views, 11 Votes ,6.35 Score
jacqndenita 42 C
1  Article
How to say "no"   9/3/2015

My wife and I have been in this situation a few times and it is always difficult. We were in a group situation, invited to a party where there were several couples we knew and there was one guy out of the bunch that my wife found very unattractive. Later on in the evening there was group play going on and we didn't end up playing at all because she was uncomfortable with having to say no to ...


2 Comments, 60 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
Male Head vs. Female Head   8/28/2015

This is a repost of an blog I did in 2012

I am just flabbergasted about a NSA that I had with a dude here on AdultFriendFinder. 1st of all he did not read my post. 2nd he was selfish and lazy. 3rd he wanted me to give him head but not return the favor. 4th he had the ordasity to get upset about it. 5th he still wanted to have sex after I left.

This is a 38 year old man (now he's ...


4 Comments, 82 Views, 17 Votes ,6.24 Score
rm_DeAnnaGray22 37 T
1  Article
Harsh Articulation   8/15/2015

In response to the email I received asking if I am interested in you I will begin by stating that I read your profile thoroughly in an effort to offer a no ‘bs’ and sincere answer. Typically I would simply not take the time to read through a profile without a profile picture attached. It shows a lack of confidence and conviction. That, in and of itself, is less attractive than the homeliest ...


5 Comments, 48 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score