[COLOR burlywood]I am happy in my long-term relationship, other than that we no longer fool around. "Married" life is everything they said it would be...no sex after the first year. I am hoping to find somebody in a similar situation who would like to meet occasionally.[/COLOR] I lead a pretty settled and quiet life and am 40 years old. I do not live a promiscuous or otherwise wild lifestyle. Knowing people, languages and cultures turns me on. I have been vegetarian for 20 years, don't drink alcohol, don't smoke, don't do drugs of any sort...so am I entitled to one vice? Despite being pretty square, I have a bent sense of humor. I am pretty shy by nature and am non-aggressive. I tend to be the per that friends come to when they need advice or talk about very private matters. I am proud of the trust I have earned in people.

My Ideal Person Mature and settled. Maturity is an afrodesiac to me. While most of my experience has been with men, I have never ruled out ladies, I have just not had much luck with them in my life.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A remote wilderness spot, No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Ask me

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
My earliest crush was on Mr. French in Family Affair. In
my adult life, Irene Bedard...I just want to watch her have
multiple orgasms.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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